The Best Dress Shoes for Men to Wear to Weddings & Formal Events

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I’ve always believed this — you can tell a lot about a man by his shoes. Especially at a wedding.
Whether you’re the groom walking down the aisle, a groomsman making sure your buddy’s big day runs smoothly, or a guest just trying not to outshine the groom (too much), the right pair of dress shoes can quietly make you the best-dressed guy in the room.

The Best Dress Shoes for Men to Wear to Weddings & Formal Events

I’ve been to enough weddings — from barefoot beach ceremonies to tuxedo-level black-tie affairs — to know that your shoes matter more than you think. They don’t just complete your outfit; they set the tone.

So, let’s talk about the pairs that never let you down.

1. The Classic Oxford — When Tradition Wins

There’s something about a well-polished Oxford shoe that feels like respect. Respect for the event, for the people there, and for the tradition of dressing well.
They’re sleek, they’re sharp, and they look like they mean business. If you’re wearing a tux or a deep navy suit, Oxfords are the safest, most stylish choice you can make.

2. Derby Shoes — The Comfortably Handsome Choice

Think of Derby shoes as the Oxford’s more relaxed cousin. They’ve got that open lacing that makes them easier on the feet — which matters when you’re standing for photos, dancing, or politely waiting for your turn at the buffet.
They work beautifully with suits and semi-formal looks, and they’ll still look sharp in the wedding album.

3. Loafers — Effortless but Elegant

For the guy who wants to look stylish without feeling like he’s trying too hard, loafers are it.
They’re easy to slip on, but in the right leather or suede, they can look incredibly sophisticated. Perfect for summer weddings, garden parties, or those “cocktail attire” invitations where you’re not quite sure how dressed up you need to be.

4. Monk Strap Shoes — For the Man Who Likes a Little Edge

Single or double buckle — either way, monk straps say you’ve got style without shouting about it. They’re not as common as Oxfords or Derbies, which is exactly why I like them. If you want to stand out in a subtle way, this is your shoe.

5. Brogues & Wingtips — Adding Personality

Brogues are what I reach for when I want my shoes to have character. Those little perforated patterns and the wingtip design bring in a vintage, almost old-world charm. Pair them with a grey or navy suit and you’ve got a timeless, slightly playful look.

6. Patent Leather — The True Black-Tie Hero

There’s no arguing with patent leather when the dress code is black-tie. That high-gloss shine under the reception lights? Perfection. If you’re in a tux, this is your best friend.

7. Chelsea Boots — Sharp, Sleek, and Unexpected

Winter wedding? Outdoor venue? Or maybe you just prefer boots? A slim, well-polished Chelsea boot works surprisingly well with a tailored suit. Bonus: they keep your ankles warm while still looking sharp.

How I Choose the Right Shoes for a Wedding

  • Match the mood — I think about the formality first. Black-tie? Patent leather. Semi-formal? Derby or monk straps.

  • Color match smartly — Black suit? Black shoes. Navy suit? Black or deep brown. Grey suit? Black, brown, or even burgundy if you’re feeling bold.

  • Never sacrifice comfort — Weddings are long. The wrong shoes can ruin your night faster than the DJ’s “YMCA” playlist.

My Final Advice

Shoes aren’t just an afterthought — they’re the detail people notice without realizing it. Choose a pair that fits the formality, matches your outfit, and feels comfortable enough to wear all day (and night).
And please… break them in before the big day. The dance floor will thank you.

The Best Dress Shoes for Men to Wear to Weddings & Formal Events

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