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Turning 40 hit me like a quiet whisper, not a loud bang. But somewhere between juggling work, family, and trying to actually sleep eight hours, I realized I needed a small change — something just for me.
I started with my hair. And wow… it did more than I expected. Here are the hair colors I’ve personally tried (and loved) — plus a few I’m still dreaming about. If you’re over 40 and want to feel fresh, confident, and gorgeous again, this list is for you.
🌟 1. Rich Chocolate Brown
This one felt like a warm hug. It’s deep, cozy, and gives your hair that shiny, healthy look we all crave. It works beautifully if you have medium to deeper skin tones — and it made my strands look way thicker than they actually are.
🛒 I used: Clairol Nice'n Easy in Natural Dark Brown
✨ 2. Caramel Highlights
Subtle but so effective. I added caramel streaks to my natural brown, and suddenly my face looked brighter — like I’d just come back from a holiday. If you're nervous about going lighter, this is the perfect step.
🛒 Try: L’Oreal Couleur Experte Highlighting Kit – Caramel
🌸 3. Chestnut Brown with Auburn Hints
This is the color I reach for when I want to feel fun again. It's rich and warm with that little reddish glow when the sun hits it. Super flattering on olive and fair skin too.
🛒 Used this: Garnier Nutrisse in Chestnut Auburn
🌾 4. Honey Blonde
I didn’t think I could pull off blonde — but honey blonde proved me wrong. It’s soft, golden, and doesn’t wash me out. Pair it with a gloss treatment, and your hair literally glows.
🛒 Pick: Revlon Colorsilk in Honey Blonde
🖤 5. Espresso Black
This one was a power move. Bold, sleek, and dramatic — it gave me that fresh-out-of-the-salon confidence. If you want to go dark, this one’s chic without feeling harsh.
🛒 My go-to: Schwarzkopf Keratin Color – Intense Espresso
☁️ 6. Cool Ash Brown
Perfect for toning down orange-y undertones or blending grays. It’s a great “reset” color — modern and easy on the eyes.
🛒 Loved: L’Oreal Excellence Creme – Ash Brown
🔥 7. Dimensional Balayage
No, balayage is not just for 20-year-olds. I tried it at home during a chaotic weekend, and it turned out softer and more natural than I expected. Plus, the low-maintenance grow-out? Yes, please.
🛒 Used: Madison Reed Light Works Kit
🌬️ 8. Pearly Platinum or Icy Silver
One of my best friends embraced her gray at 42 — and I was stunned by how beautiful it looked. If you're done fighting silver strands, this route looks polished and bold (not “old”).
🛒 Keep it fresh with:
– Clairol Shimmer Lights Purple Shampoo
– L'Oreal Feria in Silver
🌹 9. Rose Gold or Soft Copper
Feeling adventurous? I tried rose gold last spring, and it was unexpectedly wearable! It brought out warmth in my skin and gave me compliments everywhere I went.
🛒 Try: L’Oreal Colorista in Rose Gold
🌞 10. Bronde (Brown + Blonde)
Can’t decide? You don’t have to. This soft mix gives you all the brightness of blonde, with the richness of brunette. It’s flattering, trendy, and super low-maintenance.
🛒 Try this: John Frieda Precision Foam in Medium Natural Blonde
💡 What I Learned About Hair in My 40s:
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Warm tones = friendlier to maturing skin. They lift your complexion instead of making it look dull.
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Flat color = flat look. Even a few highlights can add instant depth and make you look fresher.
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Hair masks are lifesavers. Weekly masks help maintain softness and shine, especially if you color often.
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Don’t be afraid to play. We’ve earned the right to try whatever makes us feel beautiful.
🛍️ My Ride-or-Die Hair Products:
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Olaplex No.3 – Strengthens after dyeing
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Redken Color Extend Shampoo/Conditioner – Keeps my color looking salon-fresh
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Moroccanoil Treatment Oil – Smells like heaven and tames frizz instantly
Final Thoughts: It’s Your Time Now 💫
Your 40s aren’t about hiding or shrinking. They’re about expressing yourself more honestly than ever — and your hair can be a part of that. So whether you want to go bold, stay natural, or rock the silver, just do you.
And when you find that shade that lights you up in the mirror? That’s the real glow-up. 💖
and fabulou
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