How to Wash Your Hair for Maximum Growth (Yes, There’s a Right Way!)

How I Changed My Hair Washing Routine and Finally Got Real Growth 💁‍♀️✨

Let me be honest: for years, I thought I was doing everything right. Shampoo. Rinse. Maybe condition if I wasn’t too lazy. But my hair wasn’t growing. It was just… stuck. Dry at the ends. Breaking off like crazy. I almost gave up.

Then I changed the way I wash it—and I’m not exaggerating—that one change made a huge difference.

How to Wash Your Hair for Maximum Growth (Yes, There’s a Right Way!)

So here’s how I wash my hair now, and why I’ll never go back:


🧴 Step 1: Oil Before Washing – My Hair’s Secret Weapon

I used to think oiling was old-fashioned. My mom always said, “Oil your scalp,” and I’d just roll my eyes.

Now? I swear by it.

Before shampooing, I warm up a little oil (usually rosemary or coconut) and massage it gently into my scalp. Just 10 minutes. It feels amazing and somehow instantly makes me feel less stressed. But more importantly, it stimulates blood flow—which helps hair grow.

🌿 My favorite right now: Mielle’s Rosemary Mint oil. Smells divine and gives a slight tingle.


🫧 Step 2: Use Warm, Not Hot Water

This one’s simple but so important. I used to blast my hair with hot water because it felt good—but it totally dried my hair out.

Now, I stick to warm water. It’s gentle, opens up the cuticle just enough, and helps everything else work better. It’s like prepping the canvas before painting.


🧼 Step 3: Shampoo Twice – Scalp First

This changed everything for me.

I stopped focusing on the ends and started focusing on the scalp. That’s where growth actually happens. The first shampoo gets rid of sweat, oil, and buildup. The second one really cleans the scalp.

🧴 I’m using Nizoral right now (lifesaver for flaky, itchy scalps).


🖐 Step 4: Scalp Massage – Feels Good and Works

I used to rush through washing. But now I slow down. I use a little silicone scalp brush (or even my fingertips) to gently massage while shampooing.

It helps with blood flow, loosens buildup, and just… feels so good. Bonus? It encourages hair to grow stronger and stay in the growth phase longer.


🧴 Step 5: Condition the Ends Only

I made this mistake for years—coating my whole head in conditioner. It made my roots greasy and heavy.

Now I apply conditioner only to the bottom half of my hair. I leave it on for a few minutes while I shave or wash my face. That way, it gets time to actually soak in.


❄️ Step 6: Cold Rinse at the End

Yes, it’s uncomfortable. Yes, I still hate it. But it works.

That quick blast of cold water seals the hair cuticle and makes my hair shiny and smooth. I swear by it now.


🖤 Step 7: Dry Gently, No Rubbing!

After the shower, I don’t use my regular towel anymore. I either grab a microfiber towel or just an old cotton T-shirt.

Instead of rubbing, I gently squeeze out the water. Rubbing caused so much breakage before—I had no idea.


Real Talk: Here’s What I Learned

  • Less is more—I wash my hair 1–2 times a week now.

  • I detangle after showering with a wide-tooth comb.

  • A good oil and a good shampoo combo makes a world of difference.

  • Sleeping on a silk pillowcase has reduced my breakage like crazy.


Final Thoughts

Hair growth doesn’t come from some magic product. It starts with the basics—how you wash it, treat it, and protect it.

If you’re stuck in a rut like I was, try changing your routine. Give it 4 weeks. You might be surprised how much your hair starts to bounce back.

💬 I’d love to hear your hair stories. What’s helped your hair grow? Drop a comment or DM me—I actually read every one.


How to Wash Your Hair for Maximum Growth (Yes, There’s a Right Way!)

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